Match Making in East
Gajray strives to bring revolutionary changes and reforms in our society by its very applicable and reachable system. It's got a number of the following goals:
Dowry is the biggest hurdle in the way of marriage especially for Sisters. As soon as they reach the age of marriage, dowry permanently gets in the way of their dreams resulting in depression.
Gajray would give our people an option to say "yes" or "no" to dowry, which would give hope and courage to find like-minded people, as the Gajray rishta market is huge and worldwide.
Sisters would be empowered by Gajray, as they would be able to search through a long list of compatible profiles. They would be able to send proposals that Islam has already allowed them centuries ago. Society wouldn’t have any reason to pressurize them for mismatched proposals. They wouldn’t have to wait and be presented in front of visitors as showpieces.
Overseas Pakistanis would feel proud of Gajray, as they would not feel left alone. Their Pakistani community would be only a click away from them. Countless Pakistani rishtas would be available in front of them to find compatible matches. Parents would do this with the discretion of their children. Nobody would be unhappy going through this beautiful procedure that would bring him or her back to his or her culture and civilization.
Sober and meaningful use of Internet would prevail in our society. Boys wouldn’t tease girls’ instead they would try to impress their families with their qualification, attitude and traits. Deprivation will fade away as determination would take its place. Gajray would come forward as a source of positive and constructive way of fulfilling human desires and needs.
Religious harmony would be considered an important and achievable task for a successful marriage. Today religiously mismatched and compromised marriages are one of the biggest reasons of divorce. A religiously bearded man would be able to find a hijabi woman through Gajray. Religious views from both sides would be understood before proceeding towards engagement or Nikah.
Because of our already established system, breach of privacy is quite common. If someone gets “no”, it becomes a news in family and neighborhood. The reason of that is having no rishta market. The people involved bringing a rishta are usually the ones that spread gossips around. Through Gajray, most things would be finalized on phone without any middle party involved and that would secure the dignity and respect keeping privacy.
Widowed and divorced people would be able to settle down in their lives once again on their own terms as plenty of suitable choices would be available for everyone.
Our middle class people are very intelligent and excelling in all the fields of life. But only because of their not so rich family background and house addresses; they are not considered in upper class families resulting in less rishta opportunities. Gajray would make available more opportunities and choices for every one based more on personal qualities and achievements.
People would be able to say "yes" or "no" to expensive weddings without any fear that would make it a matter of choice even before approaching someone. They would work on their profiles and improve themselves resulting in not so expensive weddings in our society.
Nobody would have to wait for the groom or bride of his or her dreams. Choices would always be available from around the world. The only thing one would have to do is making oneself compatible to the bride or groom of his or her dreams. Delayed marriages would only be a thing of past.
Anyone from anywhere would be able to start finding a suitable match, as unlimited contacts would be provided from around the world.
If a male and a female meet with the arrangements of their families that would be called a meeting but if they meet secretly that would be called dating. Gajray wants to introduce a system that would strengthen our family system and overcome the generation gap between parents and children by connecting them with their culture and civilization.
A mature society will prosper, as single people would easily be able to make couples. Women would be respected, as we would have laid the phenomenal directions. No short cuts or wrong ways would be adopted.
The benefits mentioned above are only a tip of the ice berg. We are going to reap a lot more benefits than we can ever think of. Miracles happen where people believe, trust and work together. Creativity and teamwork can change our society. Team-Gajray believes and trusts that together with our masses we can make Gajray a source of peace, happiness and success.