Goals

The 10 Goals of Gajray.com: Our Promises to Pakistani Families

We are building Gajray.com on a foundation of specific, actionable promises. Each goal is designed to directly solve a problem you face and is made possible by our unique, family-centric approach.

• To Guarantee a Safe Space for Women & Families Through our "Shielded Investigation"—email allows vetting from a shared family account, so a woman's personal identity is protected until the family chooses to reveal it.
• To Filter Out Casual Daters & Ensure Serious Intent By requiring formal email introductions, which demand effort and thought, naturally filtering those who are not genuinely seeking marriage.
• To Give Families Complete Control & Time By eliminating instant chat pressure. Email lets you discuss proposals for hours or days as a family, in your own comfort zone, before responding.
• To Make Difficult Conversations Clear & Respectful By providing a written email record where crucial topics like financial expectations, values, and life goals can be discussed honestly from the start, preventing future conflict.
• To Be Accessible to Every Pakistani Family By using email—a universal tool understood by all generations, from elders in villages to youth in cities, with no complex app to download or learn.
• To Stop Financial Exploitation in Matrimony By enabling transparent early dialogue about dowry and wedding costs, helping families align on practicality and avoid crippling debt before commitments are made.
• To Strengthen Family Bonds During the Search By making the search a collaborative project. Our process requires families to review emails and decide together, turning the rishta hunt into a unifying mission.
• To Elevate the Rishta Process with Dignity By adopting the global standard for serious proposals (email), treating marriage with the respect and formality it deserves, unlike casual chat-based platforms.
• To Build a Platform You Trust, Not One That Controls You By acting as a simple directory & facilitator. We don't use secret algorithms or paywalls for messaging. We give you the tool; your family provides the wisdom.
• To Become the Household Name for Trustworthy Matrimony By relentlessly prioritizing safety and integrity over profit, as proven by our 15-year journey, to become the first platform families recommend with confidence.

For Our Goals to Work, We Need Your Partnership: The success of Gajray.com and the safety of our community depend on you following our core process. Please keep all initial communication strictly on email until a mutual understanding and family approval are reached. Use this phase to involve your parents and elders, seek their advice, and conduct a thorough "Shielded Investigation." This practice ensures serious intent, protects everyone's privacy, and is the foundation of every goal we have listed above.

To Foster a Community of Respectful Users By your commitment to our process. When every member agrees to use email for all initial vetting and involve their family before sharing personal contacts, we collectively build the safe, serious environment we all seek. This is our shared social contract.